The ultimate checklist: things to consider when hiring a remote executive assistant
Hiring a remote executive assistant sounds like a simple fix. You’re busy, your calendar is chaos, your inbox is out of control, so you hire someone to handle it.
But this is one of those hires that can either completely change your business for the better… or create even more stress if you get it wrong.
A great EA doesn’t just “help.” They multiply your time, protect your focus, and keep your business running behind the scenes. A bad one? More hand-holding, more follow-up, more stress.
So if you’re thinking about hiring, here’s the actual checklist of things to consider when hiring a remote executive assistant.
Understanding the role of a remote executive assistant
Before you even think about candidates, you need clarity on what you’re hiring for.
Key responsibilities
A remote executive assistant should be handling high-leverage support, not just random admin tasks. Think things like calendar and schedule management, inbox triage and response drafting, project coordination, and generally keeping the wheels on for your business.
You want to be picky about skills. First, you’ll want someone with remote work skills and experience. Working remotely is not the same as working in an office. You want someone who manages their own time well, doesn’t need constant check-ins, and is comfortable working asynchronously. If they’ve only worked in highly structured, in-person roles, expect a learning curve.
You also want to look for effective communication. Your EA is often the person representing you. If their communication is unclear, slow, or sloppy, it reflects directly on you.
Look for clear, concise writing, fast response times, thoughtful follow-up questions, and strong attention to detail.
In addition, you’ll want strong project management experience. Even if you’re not hiring them as a project manager, they should have some level of project management experience because your life as a founder is a series of moving pieces. If your EA can’t track deadlines, prioritize tasks, and keep things moving, you’ll still be the bottleneck.
Lastly, prioritize adaptability and flexibility. Your business is almost certainly going to change while you work with them, so your EA needs to be able to keep up with shifting priorities, new tools, and evolving workflows without getting overwhelmed every time something changes.
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Considering qualifications and experience
This is a hot topic when hiring an EA, so let's talk about it. How important are certifications, qualifications and experience?
Our take: certifications can be helpful, but they’re not everything. Things like administrative certifications or operations training can be a plus, but real-world experience matters more than a piece of paper.
When considering experience, look for a mix of prior EA or high-level VA experience, familiarity with common business tools, strong organizational systems, and proven ability to handle sensitive information as well as ambiguity.
You want someone who has operated at a high level before so they can jump right in.
We often are asked about industry-specific knowledge, and the importance of that really depends on your business.
If you’re in a niche industry, having someone who understands your space can be a huge advantage. They’ll ramp faster and make better decisions early on. That said, I wouldn’t make this your top filter unless it’s critical.
Assessing candidates for remote executive assistant roles
This is where you can put in upfront legwork to avoid expensive mistakes.
In the interview, don't just ask generic questions - use the time to dig into how they actually work.
Some great starter questions to use include:
Walk me through how you manage a chaotic inbox
How do you prioritize when everything feels urgent
Tell me about a time you caught a mistake before it became a problem
You’re looking for how they think rather than a list of what they’ve done.
Importance of professional references
Always check professional references, but not just to confirm employment. Ask things like how independent they are, how they handle pressure, and if they would hire them again.
You’ll get way more honest insight from this than from any interview.
In addition to that, give them a real-world task - ideally something straight off of your actual to-do list. This gives you a chance not only to see their work but to see how they get there. For example, do they ask an excess of questions? Is their formatting professional?
This tells you more in 30 minutes than hours of interviews.
Tools for success
A great EA is only as effective as the systems you both use.
The first priority is to make sure they’re comfortable with online collaboration tools like Google Workspace, Slack, or similar platforms. In addition, you’ll want them to be comfortable with tools like Asana, ClickUp, or Monday help keep everything organized.
Communication platforms
You need clear communication channels, whether that’s Slack, email, or a mix. It’s totally reasonable for you to expect your VA to adjust to your preferences for this, so don’t be afraid to ask!
Set this up early so you’re not constantly wondering where conversations are happening.
Onboarding your new EA
This is where it is easy to drop the ball. You hire someone great… and then give them zero structure, or zero time.
Even experienced EAs need context on things like how you like things done, how you communicate, your priorities, and anything that really annoys you.
Document what you can, but don’t stress about it - you can just walk them through the rest.
Setting expectations
Be very clear on your expectations regarding response times, decision-making authority, and ownership split between you. It can feel overkill to define this, but ambiguity here can lead to frustration on both sides.
Hiring a remote executive assistant isn’t just about getting help. It’s about buying back your time and removing yourself as the bottleneck in your business. But, that only happens if you hire the right person, for the right role, and set them up properly from day one.
Done right, this is one of the highest ROI hires you’ll ever make.
